It goes on and on....

So, the dipstick who wrote me the long letter of hatred toward me and all of womankind felt the need to reply ONCE AGAIN. No idea why....but, hey, more blog fodder!

HIS NAME IS BENC2585 and while I normally steer clear of names out of reaper to their humanity, he has proven he clearly doesn't have any an is a danger to others. 

I have no desire to get in your pants at this point , though that would usually be my motive. My motive is to express my frustration and anger with women kind. I do not fear the okcupid police and you disappoint me that instead of trying to communicate and solve your own problems, you seek a higher authority to solve your problems. Are you dependent on a system to survive. Are you like most sheeple? No, this argument is happening, this debate will not be stopped. See I am not a danger to myself or anyone else. I am however one sexually frustrated and pissed off dude. And I understand that I have essentially become the villain, I have become the nasty and vulgar guy. But you know what makes villains like Hannibal lector, Joker, and Darth Vader interesting characters? It's that even though they are crazy and evil, deep down we agree with them, and they are a product of their societies corruption. And the feminization of our society is corrupt. Through affirmative action society is trying to shove the horse shit down men's throats that you all are equal to us. Ha! This country was built by men. Women are the worst decision makers I have ever met. You all can't even choose a proper mate. You all are more interested in skateboarders, artsy fartsy types, or some other type of loser rather than a man who is responsible and makes a living for his family. Women were better off when they were unable to provide themselves a living and their parents chose their husbands. You all are fools when it comes to love. And why is it that men have to dance around like monkeys to win your approval and selection. Aren't there more girls on the planet then men? You all should be doing the dancing and approval seeking by mathematical reasons alone. We are in more demand than you. And why is it that sitcoms and the media portray men as bumbling idiots and women as the saviours? Why is it that I have to walk down the check out isle and see magazine after magazine of women flaunting their sexuality as if they were the prize. Lets not get it wrong. Women are the arrows men are the targets. Not vice versa. Why is it that you think you get to make up the rules? You are the woman not the man. Learn your place. What do you think about that Wonder Woman?





AAAAAAAAND.....BLOCK! Really? You're not a danger to anyone but your idol is Hannibal Lector and you think we need to go back to a time when women were property not humans? There are much greater reasons at play why you can't find a mate. Again, he needs professional help. But as I am now ACTUALLY AFRAID of him, I reported him AGAIN and blocked him. Please, just "hide us kids, hide ya wife, cause he rapin everybody out here". 

What the hell is wrong with people?

So, today, I got this message from a person I'd never spoken to, never heard of, who lives in another state, and I knew nothing about before this message....he wrote me a small novel on what a terrible human I am because the first line of my profile is

"DISCLAIMER: I'm not dating just to date anymore, and I'm not getting into a relationship with anyone who doesn't want marriage and kids in the near future." 

Apparently that translates to "I won't fuck you" in dick-inese

You know there are lots of profiles out there like yours. The first thing you all claim is you are not here for a hook up. Pardon my language but, what the fuck!? I'm tired of women saying that first thing in their profiles. There is no straight man on earth who doesn't want to have sex. That's just a dose of reality. And I know there are a lot of pricks out there who will lie and say they aren't out for sex, say something like they are looking for their soul mate. That is a bunch of bull shit. The only man your going to find that is willing to wait for marriage to have sex is the man who thinks the only way he can get sex is through marriage. I'm sorry but being dishonest is not in my nature and the worst part about it is I am punished for it because if your honest you don't get laid. Women are so retarded because they reward dishonesty and they punish honesty. If a guy is smooth and can appeal to your alls emotions then he is in there like swimwear but if a man is honest he gets kicked to the curb like a mutt. I don't know if women don't know or don't care that sex is a need for men. We get extremely depressed when we don't have a mate. We sit and think why aren't we good enough, our self esteem crashes, we feel miserable all day, and we watch couples and hope and pray we can find that special person to be intimate with. Just as much as you all need emotional support and attention we need someone to lie next to at night. And we're not dogs because of it either. It's so funny how women's sexuality is applauded in this country but men's is frowned upon. Most men don't want multiple women, most men don't want to screw women over, most men don't want to fuck and disappear, most men want a woman to come home to that loves him and wants to make love. And the other parts of a relationship are great too. Going to dinner, talking, holding hands, kissing, cuddling, but the sex is just as important. You may be wondering why I'm going off on you like this? Well, I'll tell you why. Usually I would try and come up with something witty to try and flirt with a pretty girl such as yourself hoping and praying that I could get the ground work started so I might build a relationship with you. But after 2 years of failing and feeling miserable and alone after failing I think I want to do something different. I'm sorry I'm taking it out on you but you are the straw that broke the camel's back, and I'm feeling a lot better after this rant. Fuck you, Fuck your stipulations, and Fuck your vagina that you are dangling in front of us like a carrot on a stick! I'm done. I'm just going to make money, become successful, and buy an Asian girl. I'll take care of her, she'll take care of me, we'll make babies together as nature intended it to be, and live happily ever after. If you have a son someday, that you'll love very much probably, I hope he has the same trouble with getting a woman to love him as I have had. Because then maybe you will understand how much pain your alls behavior causes. Good luck on finding a man you can pussy whip. Have a good life.



So....I reported him. And then I sent him this:

Umm...what the actual fuck? Why did you find the need to attack me for saying I wanted a relationship? NO WHERE on my profile does it say I DON'T want sex. I DO want sex. I don't want ONLY sex. 

I love sex. But attacking people for wanting a relationship not a meaningless hookup...that's not a good way to get sex. That's not a good way to get ANYTHING. And I don't really understand what you thought you accomplished by reading one thing on my profile, ASSUMING that it meant something it didn't, and then attacking me for it. 

And I don't know where you live that women's sexuality is applauded and men's is frowned upon, but ... where I live ... men are still high fived for "scoring" with a girl, but a woman is seen as a whore. I think it should be equal, honestly. I think if someone (man or woman) wants to have hookups, they should get to do that. I'm not their judge and jury. I just want something more than that. And I don't think I should be faulted for that any more than they should be faulted. 

I have NO desire to "pussy whip" anyone. And clearly you're miserable because you're a miserable person who spreads that misery around. And I don't think that buying a woman is really the answer to how to be loved and treated equally. So, just for the record, I copied everything you sent to me and sent it to okcupid to report you for harassment and misconduct. I feel as though you are potentially a danger to yourself or others and might want to...talk to someone. Because clearly if you are in such bad shape that you attack perfect strangers on the internet because of one line of their profile that you read....you need professional help. And that's coming from someone who has sought professional help for my own issues. You will never find someone to love you if you can't love yourself, and through this message, it's quite clear that you don't love yourself. You hate yourself, and you're projecting that hatred to others

Begin at the Beginning

So as someone who has been on and off of dating sites for the better part of four years I thought I would offer my insight into the incredibly stupid things people are doing. And how YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG. Basically, it's my chance to snark about people's profiles, pictures, and correspondences without anyone getting angry at me. Or, if they do, I don't care.

So be prepared! Let the snarking Begin!


For post one, We'll start with someone who's doing it right:

Introduction, way to get more info, honesty, compliment, question. Great way to start a conversation! Names have been removed to protect the person who's actually good at this.

This....is not how you do it:

I am not buying a used washing machine. I'm looking for a relationship. Listing off your qualifications and started with "clean, no drugs or diseases" just doesn't put the "I'd love to meet you" vibe into my heart.

Finally, the least effective way possible:

I don't want anything from you but your body. You know nothing about me, and I will not come to you. This will only last for three days tops. Please come to my house where I might be a serial killer... Umm...no thanks....